0126 Female Led Relationships: What It's REALLY Like in an FLR

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Okay, so this episode is a little bit Q&A, a little bit therapy, a little bit giggles from the bed—welcome to real life in a Female-Led Relationship.

In this one, I’m joined by my subbie for a full session of answering your questions. We’re talking about everything from chastity mindset changes, gentle humiliation, ball busting, and yes—even cuckolding curiosity and how we’re figuring it out. I’m sharing my thoughts on keyholding services, how they work with me, and what I look for in clients. There’s also a whole section about custom content, domme dynamics, and what it means to live in a house full of people while still trying to run a kinky empire.

And if you’ve ever struggled with feeling like FLR has to be all leather and whips 24/7… this one’s for you. Because let’s be real—sometimes it’s keys, cages, and connection… and sometimes it’s dishes and dog hair.What You'll Walk Away With:

• What gentle humiliation looks like in a loving FLR
• Chastity and how it shifts behavior (yes, even shrinkage 👀)
• How we handle domestic duties in a real-world FLR
• What makes a healthy dynamic between Dominant women and submissive men
• Why communication, negotiation, and humor are non-negotiables in this lifestyle

Questions This Episode Answers:

• How do you start a female-led relationship in a long-term marriage?
• What does chastity do to a man mentally and physically?
• How does keyholding actually work?
• Is cuckolding part of FLR?
• What’s gentle humiliation and why does it work?

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Transcript

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Welcome to my bodily functions. This podcast is intended for mature audiences only. If you're not 18 years of age or older, there are thousands of other podcasts you can listen to and you can come back and visit us when you are 18. This podcast is meant solely for entertainment. We are not licensed doctors, lawyers, or therapists. We simply have a fascination with the lifestyle and I'd love to share it with you and get your thoughts and opinions. Welcome back. Episode 26, bitches. She doesn't mean bitches. Let's talk. As you can tell, Masabi's here. That was a... Okay, so we're recording YouTube also. So I just held my thumbs up for those of you listening. So today, because Masabi's here, we've had some questions. We're going to do a question and answer session. We are. That's going to be fun. It should be real fun. Before we start with the questions. Chastity Mansion. Oh, how cool are those folks? My new favorite place to hang out. Yeah. Everyone is so friendly. So friendly. I love chatting with you guys. If you're listening, you make my heart happy. Her DMs are popping almost all the time. It's fun. I'm a busy girl. I like it. Okay. Someone sent me a message. Apparently, I hit the wrong hashtag button on a post I did. And I did hashtag cuckqueen. Probably not the right one. And somebody questioned me about that because a cuckqueen would really not work in our dynamic. Not at all. For anyone that maybe doesn't know what a cuckqueen is, I Googled it and got the Google definition for you. And it is a woman who willingly allows her boyfriend or husband to sleep around, feels aroused and or derives sexual pleasure by watching her boyfriend slash husband have sex with another woman. That is not me. I don't share well. No. Maybe someday, but right now. I think neither one of us have interest in that. I don't think so. Nope. Oh, another thing I got. It was an email about how they have been married for over 30 years and are tiptoeing into an FLR or female-led relationship. I was so excited to get that. I love hearing about people who have been together for so many years and are still finding ways to spice things up and try new things. Be creative. I love that. Love it. We were talking yesterday about that specific person or couple. They had been together for like six years or so. That's a different one. This couple has been together for 30 plus years. That's right. And the husband introduced it to the wife and they are tiptoeing into it. And it's fantastic. The couple you're talking about actually emailed me and just celebrated their seven-year wedding anniversary. And six months prior to that, or around their sixth year, they were on the verge of divorce. They went through some really hard times, life, things like that. And now their communication is fantastic. They're practicing a female-led relationship, a cuckolding relationship. And he said their relationship has never been better. And I would love to have them on the podcast. That would be great. And do an interview with them because honestly, this is like real life. Life fucking happens. How true is that? Especially today. Right. But I would love to have them on the podcast. So I am in the works to do something like that with them. I think you guys will really like it. I'm excited. Yeah. It's fun to talk to other people. Yes. Sometimes we get like in our own little bubble or whatever. And it's nice to talk to other people about things. Yes. And that's where Chastity Mansion is cool too. Yeah. Because that's full of people, just regular people. And that's just kind of a niche place as opposed to like a FET or, I don't know, adult friend finder or whatever. You know, it's really centralized on this. Yeah. And I like, I mean, FET life is good. It can be really overwhelming for beginners. Yeah. It sure can. Overwhelming. Yeah. It's a cool place, but you have to really, you have to spend some time there to find your space. So. Yes. I'm happy to be here. I'm happy to have you here. It's super fun. It's not the most comfortable setup right now though, I'm not gonna lie. Not at all. But we did what we had to do. If you could only see what's behind the camera. No, you don't really want to. It's, it could be worse, I suppose. We're a little bit of a disarray right now. Right. So we have a couple questions. Am I saying names? You don't have to say names. These are from Twitter. One of the questions was, was he, meaning my subbie, aware of his shortcomings? Or was this something you made him aware of? I think that from the beginning, I was pretty honest about. Sort of. Backhandedly, maybe. So I remember you telling me a story about the very first time you saw it. Oh, I was like, what the fuck? Where is it? Yeah. But then I rose to the occasion. I mean, it did the trick. Yes. I can't complain. I don't know if. I mean, it could be better. It could always be better. It's not dead yet. I think that in the beginning, I tiptoed into the humiliation quite slowly. For sure. I don't think it was anything that I was like right away. I saw it and I was like pointing and laughing at it or anything. Right now, however. Oh, you've warmed right off, haven't you? That's OK. The next question is, how long did he have to stay locked before you started seeing changes? I would say. Wait. Changes as far as what? It's not specific. What would you define changes as? OK, so there are actually a couple of different changes once you get locked up for a longer period of time. There are physical changes and there are attitude changes. Oh, the attitude changes were immediate. And it's weird because I don't know. I don't notice my attitude changes. Maybe there are little things that I do that I don't think I do or don't intend to do. I don't know. But you say it's different. So I can't. I mean. I mean, he's not an asshole if he's not caged. No. At all. Always. He's always very attentive. It's just when there is a little bit of weight in his hands, the attentiveness goes to a different level. As far as physical changes, the first few days, like we've said before, are a little rough because you get a little, in this case, little night boners. That wasn't very nice. They probably don't feel very little to him because it's like his little wiener forgets that there's a cage and decides to try and bust out and fails. No, not going to happen. But we've said, too, I think that gets better after a few days. Yeah, after a while, those don't those don't happen at night until you're, excuse me, until you're uncaged again for an extended period of time. And then you you get locked up again and you'll get him for another few nights. In my case, anyways, I don't know about everybody, but yeah. The physical changes. Also, the overall size. As if it couldn't get any smaller. It sure does. Boys, there's there's some shrinkage that occurs. At least I've noticed that. Could be different for everybody. Everybody's different. Everybody's their own person. Their body reacts to things differently. Right. On that note. Someone would like to know if we practice ball busting as a punishment. Somebody is warming right up to that. We dabble in it. As said before, we have a fucking house full of people. Right. And when this one over here is in pain, sometimes it's not overly quiet. Yeah, I'm sort of vocal. Yeah, very vocal. Like if he scratches his back, almost like orgasmic. Well, it feels good. So. The dollar back scratcher. Are you kidding me? Best dollar ever spent. So we have dabbled in it more so when we have some alone time, which is very rare. Camping season is coming. We may dabble in it a bit more intensely. He's over here crossing his fingers so he doesn't forget to say something. Hard or soft was the next question. We actually just had this discussion this morning in the shower. Oddly enough, I don't. I don't know that I would be considered hard in the ball punishment area. I'm still learning what I like because, you know, it's about me. But I also don't want to seriously injure him. So it's not super hard, but it's enough to make you. Oh, it's painful. Like as an aside from that, when, you know, we're scrolling on the Twitter or whatever. There are some gifs, gifs. However you want to say it. Whatever floats your boat. Tomato, tomato. Yeah. Where you see a woman just fucking haul off and, you know, place kick guy in the balls. And he's still standing. I don't even know how that's possible. No, because I will just tap him with my foot, barefoot, just the top of my foot. I'll just tap and he cringes a little bit. So yeah, like I feel it right away. So I don't know if it's like a tolerance thing or. So then my question to all of you guys out there, if there's any of you that practice this regularly, let me know the more you practice it. Do your balls kind of toughen up? Like, do they just get used to it and you can handle more of a firm kick or. That must be the case. I don't know. I just don't get it. I would be on on the floor in tears, writhing in pain with just one of those kicks for sure. And there's guys that just stand there. I do enjoy just a small little tap, small little rhythmic tap. That gets a little more intense the longer you do it. You got to work up. You got to warm them up. If you want to label it as warming up. OK, that works. So generally light tap that increases. I don't generally take a full swing at his balls. Not yet. It could be in the future. I'm getting a little warm over there. A little bit. I would just like to say that my mic situation sucks right now. Is it going limp? Well, it is kind of. I'm holding it in place. You just want to hold the microphone. Oh, that would look stupid. People listen. Yeah, but the people watching can see. OK. We got a Twitter message. Somebody wants to know how much my custom videos are. It's OK. Go ahead. So here's the deal on my custom videos. If you order an audio and would like to have a video of me recording your audio, I can do that. It is generally from the tits up, boobs up, whatever you want to say, of me recording your custom audio. As far as like live video chats right now, things like that, again, we have to go back to there is a house full of children. And this summer that might open up because it might be able to do it at Campmore. And we're hoping to be at Campmore during the week. But until we figure out our situation or how we're going to go about this, we don't have a whole lot of extra fundage to just go rent an office space where I could be able to do this or build a studio or whatever the case may be. So for right now, the video options available are you can order to have order on your custom audio to have me record it, video record it while I do the audio and I can send it all in a file. Right now, that's just where we're at. If that's something you're interested in, hit me up. In the future, there would probably be options for like a POV video of you using the customer's name. Yep. Of like a CBT thing or humiliation thing or. Yeah. It's possible. We just have to work out the bugs. Again, we're just. It's more about the space then. Okay, this is the next question. Just a little quick question. Does your sub do all of the chores? I mean like house cleaning, laundry, ironing, yard work. You say you share the cooking, but does he do everything else or do you still help out? So this is very dependent on a work schedule situation. His work ebbs and flows. Sometimes he is on multiple jobs, working late, things like that. I generally always, no matter what the work schedule is, even if he's home, I cook supper mainly because I'm a control freak and I want things done my fucking way and nobody else can cook as good as me. Correct. And I'm not a fantastic cook, but. Oh, she is though. It's my fucking kitchen and I want things done my way. So I'm a little bit of a spaz that way. So I do cook. Sometimes I will. Generally, I do the dishes control thing again. I want them done my way. Nobody else can do them right. I don't, I can't. I don't know why my brain processes that way. But shoveling the driveway, things like that when it's snowing or yard work, things like that. He generally does. As well as some other cleaning around the house. Yeah, yeah. And whatever. Like we're, we really are a team. Yeah. When it comes to whatever needs to get done, it just gets done. I generally take care of the inside of the house. He generally takes care of the outside of the house. Right. However, I mean, in hypothetical land, if we didn't have all these people in the house, I would love to make him put on a thong with his cage and make him clean the house and that. But it's just not an option right now. He does do things around the house though. It's not, it's not all on my shoulders. And my mom lives here and she does things sometimes too. So it, it's kind of a teamwork thing right now. Once we don't have the kids in the house, that might be entirely different. I mean, we won't be in a house in two years anyway. Right. That will change. That's a whole other. Yeah, that'll change the whole dynamic. Stay tuned. Yeah. Okay. The next question is, is my husband bisexual? He is what I tell him to be. Correct. Um, but yes. I'm not opposed. We have not dabbled in that a ton. Uh, I'm not opposed to that. It's kind of fucking hot. Yeah. The idea works well for you. Um, I guess I don't know if you would be labeled as that. I, I hate fucking labels. First of all. That's, that's true right there. We are attracted to people. Right. And their anatomy doesn't play a factor. Right. Their fucking brain and grammar does though. Yes. Just an FYI. Yes. Um, so I don't know. I mean, if we are physically attracted to someone. Then yeah. I mean, it's not, I don't know. So I guess maybe he is. I don't know how to answer that question. Well, you answered it, you know, I am whatever you say. Um, but at the same time, I'm, if I had a hard, like a hard, no problem to it. We have a safe word and I have yet to use that. Well, we have boundaries. I know him well enough to know what he likes and what he doesn't like. Right. And essentially he likes anything that turns me on. Correct. So as long as I'm okay with it, he's generally okay as well. Just out of curiosity, are you a female supremacist? That one seems a bit extreme. No, because again, it's a label. I mean, I support my gender. I, I mean, I think everybody should have equal rights. I of course feel in my relationship that female is superior, obviously. Right. In a general life. I, I don't know. I think probably the right person for the job is like the overall thing, you know, if you, like if you're a truck driver, it doesn't matter, you know, what gender or race or whatever. If you're a good truck driver, you're a good truck driver. If you're a scientist, you're a good scientist, you know, whatever doctor, I don't know. I don't, I don't feel like, I will tell you this podcast will never be used to discuss politics, race, anything like that. I want this to be a safe place where everybody is welcome. Right. We will not discuss presidential elections or candidates or the current president, anything like that. Not interested. No, I have nothing to say about that. As far as being a female supremacist, I, I mean, I like girl power, but I don't. I think supremacist is a little bit of an excessive word. Yeah. And that's that for that. I don't, I guess. That's fine. I mean, it just kind of fell off, but I don't know what to say. No, I mean, you don't, it's just an excessive word. A quick question. Do you do the cuckold thing or is it just on the table if you ever wanted to do it? We have dabbled. Right. Fun fact, I'm very picky about who I sleep with. I mean. Real picky. I mean, you have to have a little weed, just saying. I mean, if you want to look at it that way. I am extremely turned on by the thought. We have dabbled. The problem that I run into is where we have dabbled and who I have come in contact with. I struggle with not being in control. I am the dominant and the bulls that I have come in contact with or that we have explored with are also dominant and it did not end well. It's it's been a hard, a hard thing to find that equal. Like you respect them as a dominant, they respect you as a dominant, but there's no one out, one upping each other. Right. You know, that's probably a very difficult thing to find, although I mean, I'm sure it happens. I it's not out of the realm of possibility there. I mean, there's people all over that practice cuckolding relationships and the women are dominant and it's not an issue. And that goes back to. Shit, what does that go back to? I just hit my brain who you're attracted to. Yes, I seriously. So they they may be dominant, they may be submissive, they may not have care one way or the other. But if you're attracted to them, then they would be a candidate for that. It is all in how I get treated. I am turned on and attracted to people who treat me the way I like to be treated. Right. That does not mean that I would never interact with a dominant bull. Right. It's just a matter of an intellectual fucking sense of humor. If you have a sense of humor, I'm putting your fucking hands. I love sense of humor. Reel her in, boys. If you can make me laugh for me. Yeah. Clearly, it wasn't as weiner anyway. See, she's really good at this now, isn't she? Sense of humor. So, yes, we have dabbled in cuckolding. It is not off the table. I think it's fucking hot. We just have to I just have to find the right person that I'm comfortable with. And they have to be comfortable with me taking things probably a little slow. It's about the pace and it's about the setting and the person. And there's some variables involved, but it's definitely. Definitely there. On the table. Face it in butter. I like butter. Like a turkey. This is some feedback on my boring episode. God, that was a rough week. It's not really funny. It was just a bad week. It was a bad week. And it's man, if ever there was something to show that people are just human, that was. So the feedback that I got said loved the last quote, boring episode. So many people think that Dom sub relationships are BDSM all the time. It's amazing when it does happen. But boring quote, pay the bills. Quote, life happens more often than the fun time. It was nice to hear it come from someone else, too. Yes, this is my people right here. Yeah, I am not like a porno. I'm not fucking horny all the time. Not, you know, whipping his ass constantly or leading him around by his cage with a dog leash. However, I say that a lot because someday it will happen. You've mentioned that a few times. I can't. I mean, camp. It's going to be a good camping season, everyone. It could happen. But life happens. We have a lot of shit going on. And I mean, we are as real as it gets. You will hear us say the same things over and over many times. But we are working on breaking our circle of insanity. And it is what it is. It's just who we are. Right, right. I mean, you don't you don't want to sway from who we are. And I think it's one of the bigger points of the podcast is to relate that, you know, to those who are just like dabbling in it or thinking about it or whatever. And this overwhelming sense or whatever or pressure that you get that when you think of an FLR or a DS relationship, it's, you know, this 30 second porno clip or you have to wear thigh high boots with whatever. You know, it's it's a way of life. It's it's just, you know, who we are. And it's, you know, as far as this goes for anyone else, that's who you are. It's how it fits into your life and your parameters and all that. And it's just. Side note, I'm sitting here texting children upstairs while we record this. So I sincerely apologize. I'm listening to what he has to say is not really. But there is shit that has to be handled like immediately, because that's how our sense of urgency works in the teenage mind. Anyways, it's just about the reality. And stupid exits anyway. So sorry. The next one we have, because this is my this is my ADD brain. It's like that long. OK, I have a question. Before and after your husband introduced the idea of an FLR, female led relationship to me, what was my reaction to his penis size? Well, we kind of touched on this in the beginning. Right. Even after he introduced it, the humiliation thing wasn't. I struggled a lot with it because, man, the second I met this man, I was head over heels. A little weenie or not. Hey, it's tough to under touch, uncle. However, he's really good at it these days. That was my biggest struggle with the humiliation. And the spanking and all of this stuff. I struggled because I love him so much that I couldn't get my brain wrapped around the fact that. It wasn't a bad thing. And I think I'm not the only one that struggles with that, I think that because I'm getting a lot of feedback that that is the hardest part. Yeah, females specifically are overcoming or trying to overcome with this is getting out of their head that you're hurting them in a bad way, but you're not. And I kind of touched on it with the whole spanking. Right. I never thought of it as a way for him to just zone out, be with me, focus on the moment that it could be a stress reliever. You just really have to change your perspective. Obviously, I'm warming up to it six years into it. But again, you have to go at your own pace. And a lot of it is either changing your perspective of how you look at it or focusing on the results. Back to that email that I received from that couple that just celebrated their seven year anniversary. In the email, it said that, excuse me, she was struggling to wrap her head around the fact that this worked and that she didn't have to be nurturing necessarily. She could be the one in control. But now she's focusing more on the actual physical results and seeing how things, focusing on the actual way their relationship is working now rather than why for that aspect specifically. So just focusing more on the results and less on overthinking of why, which I am the fucking queen of overthinking. So yeah, for sure. That is to the overthinkers out there. You're not alone. And on my rant. So no, I didn't really have a humiliation reaction. And now I'm all about it. It's funny, though, it says before he introduced the idea, was there some what's going on? I love Twitter people. As my subbie mentioned, the very first time I saw it, I was like, where is it? Because it was a little chilly in the bathroom and it was all tucked up inside. But yes, it was a little taken aback. So the end of it is I'd like my wife to get more into the gentle humiliation aspect. But I think she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Ironic, right? It is. But I get it. I totally get it. It's hard to wrap your head around it. I still every now and then something will pop into my head and I tend to filter it a little because I feel like it's too mean. And then sometimes the filter just goes away. Yeah. The only filter you probably need is like around the kids. Yeah. Or your mom. Yeah. That's probably the only filter, but anything. Just making sure I have gotten all the questions here. I'm looking for a key holder. Are you also into blackmail or forced buy? My key holding services are being fine tuned. I offer them. They're very specific to each individual person. That's the statement. Right. So I'm not necessarily opposed to anything specific. It really is just on the basis of what the client is looking for. And I have a generalized standard contract that I send out and you review it. Everything in it is negotiable because just like this type of relationship, there has to be boundaries. Clear communication is important. And I say contract, but it's an agreement. Obviously, it's not legal binding, legally binding, but it has everything has to be very clear. There has to be clear communication and boundaries have to be set. So. And like, I mean, you said the word negotiations. Guys, it's. Welcome to our voiceover world. Guys, it's all about the negotiation. So you may have expectations and you may have needs or desires or anything. And in the part of in the at the point of negotiations is where you bring all of that stuff up and you might not get everything you want out of the situation. I guess it's just it depends on and if you're not getting exactly what you want out of the situation, maybe a certain key holder is not for you. Right. I am not for everybody. I am not everybody's cup of tea. There's there's a buffet of rights. Nor will I ever be. And I will be the first to tell you. Yeah, I don't think this is going to work. Right. And that's OK. Yeah. And I mean, I don't want to take I'm not it's not about me taking your money. I'm not trying to get rich here. Yeah, it's certainly not a situation. No, I want to. OK, so long and short of it. It turns me on to turn other people on. So I mean, and I and I enjoy the act of it. I enjoy the whole key holding aspect. So I want to be in control, but I also want to make sure you are enjoying your experience. And if I feel like we're not a good fit, I will fucking tell you I don't want your money if we're not a good fit. Right. And that's happened a couple of times. So, you know, things just aren't always a perfect fit. I may not be everybody's cup of tea, but I did get a message that says my boobs are unbelievable. Well, thank you. And it followed up by they make me hard want to see. If you've listened to my podcast, you know how I am about dick pics. Yes. That's where you're going with that. I. Unless you want to have the guy pay to rape you, then that's a whole different deal. Right. If you want to pay me to read it. OK. A dick is a dick. They don't all look the same. I'm not saying they do by any means. But once you've seen one, you've seen pretty much what the rest of them are generally going to look like. Right. Now, if you message me and say. I just listened to your audio and it really got me worked up. This is the biggest reaction I've ever had. Do you want to see a picture of it? It's a 50 50 shot there. I mean, I enjoy seeing the fruits of my labor, but just be respectful about it. Like we're not in high school. I don't know. Yes. It's OK to move past that mentality that every woman wants to see your wiener. The opening message of, hey, I want to see my cock is not going to get you far with no. Good wordplay and sentence structure and just being a decent human being. Yeah. Good conversation. Yeah. Let me see what else. On that note, I think we talked for some time before I sent anything. I remember, right? Because I wasn't all about. Oh, yeah. You want to see my dick? I don't know if you ever sent me a picture of your dick. Yeah. That took quite some time. I'm probably a good thing you didn't. Maybe I was hiding something. Or it was hiding bait and switch. OK, I think there is one more. Which will close this out. It's a good closing point. Oh, good. Well, it's OK. This one is I'm in an FLR with my wife and we have dabbled on and off for more than 10 years. Our current one has been since June. Is it safe to say your coaching is a paid service? So I'm really struggling with the structure of my coaching because this whole podcast is here to help. I want to help people navigate their journey. Right. The podcast is a big general tips or whatever, talk about experiences, whatever. It's just a big general thing. And some people have very specific things they want to talk about. The coaching is a paid service. Sending me an email or a message on Twitter or anything like that. I mean, you can ask me questions. I'm not saying like, you know, just a generalized question. We can do it on a podcast episode like this if this is something that people enjoy hearing us talk about. So far, the clients that I've had, what we're mainly doing or what the main request has been so far for the coaching services is Skype phone call with my subbie and I so that you have both of us and you can talk to both of us and you and your partner can ask him questions if you have questions, you can ask me questions. It does not have to be that way. I can do one on one with somebody if they want to do a Skype call, a phone call, whatever it's whatever your comfort level is. It's more of a structured conversation, I guess, about more in detail things like how did you do this or how did you do that? And as far as the fee goes, it's kind of a sliding thing because it's not a set thing, which is similar to the key holding thing. It's not really a set thing, you know, because it doesn't make sense for you to charge a stupid amount for somebody can't afford or whatever. You know, some people who may be a little more well off or whatever, maybe they offer a little bit more. If you're not well off, you can only offer so much. And that's it's more about the help than it is about. I just really enjoy helping people or offering my advice. You do with my advice what you want to do with it. You do your own research. You do what you're comfortable with. Don't ever do something because I said to do it because I fucking don't know everything and I am not fucking perfect. But generally for the coaching, I ask what you think a fair amount is because I want you to feel like you're getting value for your money. I don't want you to, oh, I paid her $100 an hour and I didn't get shit out of it. Well, that's not what I want. I want you to pay what you feel is fair, what you feel you can afford, because I don't want somebody to not eat because they're, I mean, that's a bit extreme, obviously, but, you know, oh my God, I can't make my rent this month because I'm paying her for this or whatever. Don't do that. I just want to help. And the money that I make doing the counseling just goes back into the podcast or equipment that he doesn't have to fucking hold up. Or I don't know, maybe a space where we're not sitting on our beds, sinking down in where I'm sure this is a very attractive view. Right. A lot of this goes right back into what we're doing. Yeah. So if you have any questions, yeah. Ask, you know, email me, whatever. I do my best to respond to emails quickly. And I wanted to say to the patrons who are on your Patreon, thank you for your support because the hosting for this does cost a few bucks and, you know, it's not like bank breaking things, but it cuts into the budget a little bit. And to have the help for that, the hosting platform is extremely appreciated. I struggle a little bit with what to post on there because I don't know what you guys want to see. Yeah. I mean, I try to put posts on in end goals. We would like to post the podcast there early. That is our thought. So before it gets everywhere else, it goes to Patreon. Patreon, I think, was kind of designed to help with the coaching if people are more comfortable going through Patreon. However, you absolutely do not have to go through Patreon if you do not want to. There are other... Oh, it's an option. Yeah, it's just an option. But it's a platform too where if you wanted to have like a live Q&A, you know, like we've watched Patreon live from, you know, other people we follow on YouTube or whatever it is, and they do like a live Q&A, you know? So that might be a possibility once a month or once a quarter or I don't know, whatever it might be. I'm always open to suggestions to what you guys want to hear or see or anything like that. And I'm more than happy to drag my subbie onto my bed for situations like this where we can answer questions or just have a conversation. Yeah. Questions are fun. Questions are fun. I wasn't doing that. Questions are fun. Questions are fun. Yeah. Yep. You got all of them? Yeah, that's it. A sand of her. You should see her lock screen. So my daughter... You shouldn't see her lock screen, but you should see her lock screen. It's funny. My daughter likes to take my electronic devices and take funny pictures and make it my wallpaper. Yeah. All of my devices are her. She's good for a chuckle, that one. Except for my phone is her dog. So I mean, you see the trend. Right. Right. I think that does it. I think that does it too. And I have to be... Oh, well, we should probably wrap it up then. I will. Enjoy that, you guys. Welcome to my bodily functions. That's totally Lee. Okay. Next week, it's undecided if my subbie will be back with me or not. Yeah. But next week's topic is swinging plus FLR equals cuckolding. Yes or no? Or does it? Yeah, that should be a good one too. Yes. And I haven't decided if I will allow little weenie over here to come back on or not. You might see us from this bed again. We're not really sure. Or here's the thing. It's either a bed, as you've noticed from the last one we did, or a vehicle, which we've done that before too. Should we put a little poll up on Patreon? Where do you want to see us? In our car or on a bed? Or other. I'd like to see recommendations. Hit us up where you want to see us. Our roof? I don't think that's going to happen. No, it's fucking cold. It's snowing outside right now. Okay. We have to wrap it up because my bladder is full. Thank you for having me. Thank you for being here. It's super fun. Yes. I mean, we're on the bed. Anyway, everyone, have a great fucking week. Be decent human beings. I love you all and we'll see you next week. Can we come in?