0104 Female Led Relationships: From Nervous to Dominant - Embracing Empowerment in the Lifestyle

I take pride on how I openly share my journey into Female-Led Relationships and the lifestyle that comes with it. I’m not here as an expert but as someone exploring, learning, and embracing what it means to step into this dynamic world. My goal is to provide real-world insight, humor, and honesty as we navigate this alternative relationship path together.

In this episode, I take you on a raw and unfiltered journey through my first hookup in the lifestyle. From navigating the chaos of messaging apps to understanding etiquette as a newbie, I share the excitement, awkwardness, and ultimate empowerment of taking control in a new dynamic. Along the way, I talk about the challenges of communication, honesty in lifestyle relationships, and my own rules for engaging with others

For anyone curious about entering the lifestyle or exploring alternative dynamics, this episode offers a candid look at the highs and lows of being a newbie. It’s packed with personal anecdotes, practical insights, and a touch of humor, making it relatable and informative. Whether you’re seasoned or just starting out, there’s something here to help you navigate honesty, boundaries, and empowerment within your own journey.

Key Takeaways:

1. Lifestyle Challenges for Newbies: Exploring the overwhelming nature of messaging apps like Kik and the etiquette pitfalls for beginners.
2. Importance of Honesty: Why asking the right questions about marital status and open relationships is crucial for integrity.
3. Personal Rules in the Lifestyle: Krystine shares her golden rule of avoiding married men unless transparency with their partner is clear.
4. Empowering Dynamics: How stepping into a dominant rol

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Speaking of my hubby, he missed out on part of it because it was about three quarters of the way through and my phone slid down from where I had it sitting and he couldn't see anything that was going on. He could only hear. This podcast is intended for mature audiences only. If you are not 18 years of age or older there are thousands of other podcasts you can listen to and you can come back and visit us when you are 18. This podcast is meant solely for entertainment. We are not licensed doctors, lawyers, or therapists. We simply have a fascination with the lifestyle and I'd love to share it with you and get your thoughts and opinions. Welcome back. As promised last week I'm going to talk about my first hookup in my new life. As I said before I was a complete newbie to everything lifestyle including lingo and lifestyle etiquette. This could almost be two episodes in one here. So I signed up for this app called Kick and let me tell you I was not prepared for what I got myself into. I don't know if I could recommend this to someone who is new to the lifestyle because it might scare them away. The female to male ratio significantly different and a new woman on Kick is like fresh meat. So many dick pics and so many terrible messages. Now listen before anyone gets their panties in a bunch I like looking at a good dick pic every now and then but one after another they all start to look the same and I was getting real frustrated. I wanted to talk to like-minded people that would offer some helpful information or advice which I did find some but mostly I was overwhelmed with unnecessary cock shots and comments like are you ready for me to make you scream or does this cock make your pussy wet or the best one yet ready to be fucked like you've never been fucked before. Confidence is one thing but how do you even know if I would like fucking you if you haven't even said a full sentence to me you have no idea what I like or don't like. I will mention one thing I don't like is being told what to do in sex or in life a discovery that quickly surfaced when my now hubby unleashed the dominant woman in me which has probably always been there but just hiding. However at that time thoughts of this just being newbie me being judgmental crossed my mind but even now almost five years later my views are pretty much the same when it comes to this. I need to get to know you a little bit before we just jump in the sack. That is not to say I haven't done random things with random guys before again a topic I plan to discuss at a later date but maybe with age it has gotten more imperative for me to get to know a person and see what kind of human they are before I let them stick their dick in me. So for a while my phone was going crazy with messages like are you ready for me to fuck you like you've never been fucked before or it was just messages like hi and nothing else or hi how are you today it seems as though no one knows how to hold a conversation anymore it's sometimes like pulling teeth to just have a conversation. Why is it so hard just to introduce yourself and tell me a little bit about yourself what do you like doing in your free time? Another fun fact about me is I have one very significant rule that I've had from day one and this is I choose not to mess with married men unless I know the wife is aware of what's going on. Now this can be a very tricky rule to abide by it relies heavily on honesty. One of my first questions when starting a conversation is are you married? If they answer truthfully and say yes I ask about the relationship. Is it an open relationship? Does she know you're talking to other women? Of course I have no way of knowing what is truth and what isn't. I really don't want to be the other woman in a relationship and cause a marriage to end. This is also another topic I fully intend on discussing in a future episode because I would love some feedback about it. I'm very curious about other people's stance on this. I will say that I have had a lapse in judgment and broke this rule once and will probably never do it again. It made me feel very uncomfortable to be in a room where the man is on the phone with his wife and I have to be quiet because she doesn't know I exist or what he's partaking in. Back to the story at hand I received a message from a guy on kick and he took the time to tell me about himself, what he did for work, that he was single, how old he was, etc. He was younger than me. He told me that he had a panty fetish and loved to fuck women while they were wearing sexy silk panties. This was interesting to me and kind of a turn-on. We chatted back and forth for a few days, had some really interesting conversations. He was very easy to talk to. We exchanged some pictures here and there. I felt very comfortable talking to him. We discussed getting together. One thing led to another and before I knew it he was on his way to my house for a hookup while my husband watched on FaceTime. I will never forget how nervous I was. I had never done anything quite like this before and sure as hell not sober and in the middle of the day. I was shaking in my wedged shoes when I saw him pull up to the house. I already had my husband on FaceTime on the phone. So he came in the house, we had some idle chit-chat and just started kissing and it took off from there. It was kind of awkward at first but soon that all disappeared and my dominant side came to the surface. I just took control of the situation and did what I wanted on my terms. There was dick sucking and ball play and the next thing I knew I was sliding my sexy silk panties that ended up ripped and ruined at the end of this to the side and he was inside me. I must have been doing something right because it was less than two minutes and he was finished. I had him all kinds of worked up. I pulled my panties back over and let his juices drip onto my panties for a nice little present for my hubby later. Speaking of my hubby, he missed out on part of it because it was about three quarters of the way through and my phone slid down from where I had it sitting and he couldn't see anything that was going on. He could only hear. Some may ask, looking back would I change anything? Nope, I sure wouldn't. I love that my hubby could hear another man fucking me but couldn't see a thing only hear this man pleasuring me. It was fantastic.